The Main Thing He's Thinking During No Contact | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and the main thing your man is thinking when he asks for a break.

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33 Comments on “The Main Thing He's Thinking During No Contact | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

  1. What it is that I do during a No Contact timeframe is the same thing I do when I’m not in a romantic relationship. I enjoy working on spending quality time with myself for my own self discovery & self development to learn more new things = whether it’s time spent alone with myself or if it’s time spent among Friend(s) / Family / Romantic partner.

    Then when I get to connect with the person I have a romantic relationship with (or Anyone else in life), I’ll have more to share with my special someone as well as I know that I will always be secure within who I am as well as be able to occupy myself if I do not have the person who returns … I’ll always be looking forward to a new part of myself and a new discovery of this world around me I just learned about whoever I’m with or even if I’m alone

  2. So true the only drama is the drama he makes. I miss him terribly.. But i know im to good for him. He told me he dont appreciate all the things i do and i dont think he ever will..

  3. Stay grounded by being out in nature, giving myself self care to the maximum by eating intuitively nutritious food, working out, pursuing my hobbies further and spending time my loved ones

  4. What I do is put my cat’s initials in my bio to make him go crazy if he’s stalking my page. What can you do right I gave him all the time to treat me right and he didn’t. I will never reach out again

  5. Hi Mathew. I am in desperate situation and would be very very happy if you could make a video about this: my boyfriend and I were arguing for a long time and he decided that he doesnt want to be with me but when i was moving out, he was even crying and saying he loves me but he thinks we cant be together anymore. I told him to take some break instead of breaking up with me and he said he thinks we shouldnt be together anymore but he is still angry and he is not sure. I stopped texting him and 3 days later he sent me i miss you last night. I told him i miss him too, and he said but we cant be together because i will never forgive you did this and this. And although there are things i did that im not proud of, all of what i did was after he did something that hurted my feelings so much. He did way worse things to me. And so i told him to think about what he did wrong that caused me to act that way and he didnot respond to that. And i told him that i will not talk with him anymore unless he answers to those questions. Because i felt like he just checks if i still think about him and miss him. What should I do?

  6. Matt, not sure I like this concept of KPIs. People are complex and for me, when a man tells me : I need to think or I need a break, that’s a red flag for me. The first question would be: what did you do until now? Collecting information,store information, in their brain, for what purpose? Sorry, don’t agree with this behaviour but you may be right for many people out there.

  7. He’s been with multiple women but I know for a fact he’s loved me most… but that makes me sick… how would I get past that? I love him but ouch!!!

  8. Love is awesome but smartness is much more important in a relationship. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. I discovered my wife was cheating on me through the help of an ethical hacker ( Cyberhackingsage )who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. It was a sad experience for me but I’m glad i found out all her secrets and how she planned on using this Pandemic to get back at me. All i did was share my wife’s cell number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp, GPS location, Call Logs and Text Messages (both deleted and incoming ones) with a remote link to a programmed application on my phone. I’m here in Florida and able to access my wife’s phone…even while she was away in Canada cheating on me. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact them Via Gmail ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text and WhatsApp them on +15713758467…thank me later

  9. What happens if both ex-partners listen to the same advises and go both no-contact? Like, really. I have the feeling that is what my husband, who just moved out, is doing with me right now and IDK how to act. 🙁

  10. @Peterson Sean  My ex and I ended things just a few days ago due to him not being fully emotionally available and not being able to give me what I deserve.. I had offered to bring him his things right away to get it over with but he said he wants to wait a few weeks because he’s not ready to see me yet.  But its only been 3 days and now he’s texting me asking if I want him to call me and he keeps “liking” all of my social media posts which are just pictures and such of what I’m doing in ny free time. What is he thinking? Do I take the call? Or forget him? I do want him back… but he says he can’t let himself get vulnerable which he already has with me causing him to distance himself and take this “break” from me. I don’t want to get hurt or waste my time if there’s no hope.

  11. My strategy is to grit your teeth and get through. If you want something better then you have to put effort into yourself first to deserve it. Tough times leads to serious self reflection in order to be ready to be for something in store for you that is so much better. Regardless, if you work it out or move on. You will be in better place than you we’re before. That s my focus during difficult emotional times. And it s ok to feel the strong desire, hurt, and sadness, because that is genuine, and truly living in the moment. However, you must know its not meant for you to stay there, but for you to build upon in your strength. Carpe Diem!

  12. My strategy is I will go watch comedy movies, enjoy my laugh, probably I will be forgetting him in the moment. just basically move on. Have to respect the man privacy. Can’t argue over that. You gotto give it to him when he need it. Then I will go experience another door waiting for me in the corner. Bad or good does not matter, life is too short to waste time for one person. It’s easy & simple.

  13. I agree with you. I have been dating some guy for last 4-5 months online..over a matrimonial portal. We met 3 months back. Got involved with each other a lot. I invested my self so much in him. For me, if I’m sleeping with some one then I’m freaking serious about him n I thought this was the generalised principle. But that’s not true. e is a bit slow. He takes time to think over things. And he is right. I’m a cancer..very emotional. He us virgo..very analytical n practical. I love the way he is taking time n having space to observe n analyse over things. That proves that he is very cautious about this matter. He sees it as a long term relationship. Hence I find him very genuine n trustworthy. So I’m letting him take his own time. Not communicating with each other detach with each other emotionally. So that we can take a rational decision. I know it’s so tempting to text n make phone call to some one you fond of so mych ,every day. But believe me, more you starve..more you value your food n when you get it on your table, you can not keep your self from having it. And nothing can distract you from your food.

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